If there’s one thing that makes every woman incomplete, the self-esteem. More often than not, us women are so much dependent on how our spouse, boyfriend, crush whoever that’s making our day special would treat us and exert an effort for us. I know right! We wanted to be treated like that of Cinderella with glass shoes, so fragile, so precious. We all yearn for that special attention, that’s most of the time extinct in the real life story especially when the relationship gets to that full stop of comfort zone of knowing and dating or togetherness.
We bereft so much when there’s a lack of attention in our relationship. We ask ourselves, what must be wrong with us? We try to find answers to our own questions. We investigate, we confront ourselves or that significant other, we ask open-ended questions and most of the time, we doubt our own worth. These means, we struggle because we don’t know how deserving we are.
I am one of those many women who went through and who’s going through this typical day-to-day scenario, good thing is that, for the longest time that I am sputtering deep inside with these infrangible insecurities and yearning for love and sincere attention. I have came up with an incredible antidote for this irking, mind blowing feelings. I learned to dance its complex rhythm by appreciating what I am doing and what I can do.
I am a mom of two and that I should be glad, I am also making a good model and sire to them. I am an employee who works with people and contributing something in my workplace and my future. I am a woman who can perform multi-task and commits her full service to her master. I am a woman who’s more than willing to sacrifice for her family and friends, for I know how to value people. To cut it short, I am worthy of every good thing and I am feeling better now. This is despite my insecurities and self-doubts. I know it could be difficult, but it’s a part of our being human to feel that pinch of these emotional disturbances. It would be our choice to whether let these disruptions mislead us and break us. Consider that there are ways to escape from these dungeons of life. And you can! open your heart to the realm of the world. Everyone is facing the same or dissimilar challenges but help your self out. Face it and dance with it’s rhythm, as it brings forth strength and wisdom to you. What is crucial is that “you know who you are and you love who you are.” You may be fat or thin, got stretch marks or dark skinned. Nothing and no one can let you down, less you allow it. Celebrate and dance while combating that endless process of life and its challenges. You are a woman, celebrate!
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